He locks me up, it hurts - maybe a little more than it should because he went a shade too far, but that happens - I tap, it's my turn.
I lock him up and he doesn't respond. I try harder, thinking maybe my techinque is wrong or he needs me to go deeper (different people have different tolerance for pain after all) and he doens't respond.
I ask for help from the instructor (also a large and highly ranked guy), who comes over, does the lock, and my partner moves... a little, might even tap once. He asks me to do the lock to my partner, who again, doesn't respond at all. The instructor is perplexed.
I put the same lock on instructor, who taps immediately.
AHA! I was probably doing the lock right!
My partner was an Overly Macho Guy.
|Yes, this guy.|
I know you grapplers know exactly who I'm talking about. Overly Macho Guy will let you dislocate a joint or break something rather than tap out.
Overly Macho Guy, when sparring, will go as hard as he can, and show no mercy in his or her attack (his defense is pretty weak, though, as he's all attack more often than not).
Overly Macho Guy will avoid pairing with women or people much smaller than him whenever possible. Being seen at any point allowing such people to be successful in learning the technique on him means that he is weak and worthless.
Overly Macho Guy will resist any technique before you get a chance to even figure it out how it works. Then claim that the technique doesn't work, because you couldn't figure out how to apply it correctly the first time against full resistance. Anything less is not being "alive" enough.
Overly Macho Guy will unrealistically resist (as some techniques require a distraction of some sort) in order to prevent you from successfully doing a technique. Yes, he will pretend that a punch to the throat or an eye rake (which will at least give you a flinch response) didn't work at all, ever.
Overly Macho Guy will be angry when he loses in point sparring - vocally or visibly so. Because it's impossible for him to lose.
|THE WORLD IS AGAINST ME!|
Overly Macho Guy doesn't understand that training requires safety, and a little give and take, and not always going full power and speed, so that you can understand what you are being told.
Now, Overly Macho Guy can be female - in my experience I've met one - but usually they're dudes.
So tell me about YOUR run-ins with Overly Macho Guy. Are YOU an Overly Macho Guy? I'd love to hear your stories!