But this post is not about the legality of self defense - it's about the moral and ethical concerns.
When we think of lethal weapons, of course, a firearm is what first comes to mind.
In the heat of a violent situation, the use of a firearm theoretically has a high probability of lethal results. After all, in firearms training, we learn to never to point the weapon at anything we aren't willing to shoot or kill.
When I was originally trained for self defense with firearms (long before I took up the martial arts), I learned to "double tap" and aim for the center (the heart, lungs, etc.) and the head. I was trained to assume that I had to completely neutralize the threat, and that could mean to the death of the other person.
|Whatever is in front of this firearm,|
assume it is going to die.
Knife training is also common, especially in my art, but then you have to consider the use of all of the other weapons we train with in the martial arts. Here's a list at Wikipedia, but you also have to consider weapons of convenience, like glass bottles, brooms, chairs, statuary, scooters, and shovels.
As the maxim goes, you fight the way you train. Many of us are engaged in self-defense training that includes an element of lethal counter-force, but especially when you train with weapons.
I think I've made it abundantly clear I advocate weapons training. As passionate I am about this subject, there's something you really have to take into consideration before you train to use weapons.
My question to you is this: Are you sure you are willing to kill someone? In all circumstances, no matter what?
We always envision some nebulous evil person who's coming to kill and plunder with evil intent when we train self defense. But is that the threat we are always going to encounter, or is even the most likely thing we will encounter?
- How about just some drunk father of two small children who's gotten out of control at the bar?
- What about a mentally ill person who is having trouble with their medication and has turned violent?
- What about your teenage son or daughter who's high on drugs?
- What about the person who just temporarily lost complete control of their temper and starts swinging a chair?
|Is this woman asking to be killed if she|
takes a swing at somebody?
I first really thought through where I stood on the matter when I read Rory Miller's Meditations on Violence for the second time. My reading of that book made me examine my own mind and what I am willing to do in order to defend myself. I spent a lot of time thinking about this, and what I'm really training for when I do martial arts.
I suspect it took the second reading of "Meditations on Violence" for this one point to really become clear to me, as I was much further along in my training and I understood what I was doing better than I did when I first began (which is when I first read the book).
- Every time I train to hit someone with a heavy object to the temple, I'm training to deliver a potentially killing blow.
- Every time I train to cut a vital artery, I'm training to kill.
- Every time I train to break a neck, I'm training to (potentially) kill - a neck break is not an automatic death sentence but the risk is high.
So, in your training, I urge you to take the time to reflect upon this, make up your mind where you stand, and train accordingly. If, like me, you are unwilling to kill unless absolutely necessary, adjust your self defense training and plans accordingly.
Because taking a life is serious business, and nothing to ever take lightly. Ever.